• Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    I’ve always had self esteem issues with my junk. Which by measuring is totally fine, even a little bit more than average…but man I’d hate to be a dude with a micro. Like they are just beaten down at every corner.

    • Scirocco@lemmy.world
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      21 hours ago

      I have similar feelings and experiences as you, but have learnt while doing… uhh internet research, that micropeens do in fact have a pretty extensive and well-developed fanbase.

      The acronym ‘sph’ is not very affirming, but there’s a hole other side to the genre that’s really quite supportive.

      Some guys have all the luck, it seems.

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      19 hours ago

      I dated a girl who had previously dated a guy with a (so called) micropenis. Apparently it doesn’t really get in the way of sex because you can do a lot of sex without a penis (cf lesbians), and really the only issue was his self confidence about it.

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        17 hours ago

        Oh, don’t think I’m knocking the other parts of sex. I know it’s not just p in v. The only folks who think like that are the same folks who think women can’t orgasm.

        My point is that society likes to be harsh on dudes who aren’t packing. If you got a small penis you are less than blah blah blah. I’ve been made to feel small in other aspects of my life, and I feel for anyone who has been made to feel small.

        I guess, long and short of it is. I wouldn’t make fun of Hitlers small penis, I’d make fun of him for being a dumbass Nazi.

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          6 hours ago

          Please note that it’s typically not society, just the men, caring about penis size.

          And to my mind, it’s typically only the insecurity talking. They don’t have experience with anything but their own equipment, rarely have talked with anyone in a position to compare (from a user perspective) that doesn’t also want to reassure or flatter them, and are typically prone to find other irrational contests to validate their self worth.

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        18 hours ago

        Society teaching us sex is only P in V is definitely one of the most harmful downfalls, for both men and women.

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        23 hours ago

        Well yes…but you know folks can be. “Oh you got a micro, that must mean you are nazi.” Shit like that. Folks can be cruel.