Yeah i started trying to register at .ml then Beehaw and was immediately put off about the user registration. Like dude let me join or don’t but open questions with unclear reasons and motives is super off putting, especially when questions are like:

how do you wish to contribute? I don’t know I have not stated using your space yet, I don’t have a feel for the server, nor the types of posts or communitiea available.

What communitiea are you going to join/use? I don’t know, whichever ones stand out as interesting, seriously get out of my business lol.