[edit: I thank everyone for their comments and time. A lot of very interesting opinions and view points. Unfortunately also a lot of things that went away from the actual answer. So I’m thinking maybe this thread can be closed without deleting it?]

The more I hear people talk about it who aren’t cis-het men, the more I hear criticism about the concept. But so far, I’ve only heard people say that it’s stupid, that it’s not a thing, that it’s men’s own fault etc. But I’ve yet to understand where that criticism comes from. I don’t want to start a discussion on whether or not it’s real or not. I just want to understand where the critics are coming from.

  • subtleorbit@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    I’ll disagree a little here.

    My wife’s had surgeries from men that know waaaaaay more about her period than she does.

    That being said, they went to school for a decade and have another decade of experience learning specifically about a topic. They aren’t just some random business student that dropped out 2 weeks into semester one and writes their theses via comments.

    Small but important caveat. Otherwise 100% agreed. I have no ideas on periods because I’m not a woman or a Dr.

    • tree_frog_and_rain@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Yeah I also disagreed, I’ve read some very compassionate takes on men’s situation written by academic feminists.

      Bell hooks the will to change for example. Women can be experts on gender, and how systems of domination effect everyone. Men included.