context: I’m a nurse with several years of job experience in several units.
I’ve always seen that in each unit there is a group who somehow are the ‘alphas’ in the unit and can make your life hell if you cross any of them, the kind of people a careerist would give attention and flatter if he wanted to climb the job ladder. I’m calling them alphas not because they’re the best academically, but the best organized with the best contacts, the ones who due to these contacts get to decide who gets promoted (friends) or ignored. And management trusts them because they keep shit working.
Where I am now this on practice means they get to enjoy a one hour pause while I do a 30 minute one.
I guess some of you would tell me now to pick my battles, not to be jealous, to do my job and go home and accept I’m employed… but it’s not a nice feeling. This has happened in every workplace I’ve been. People are tribal, sadly. This is also why I’m leaving the bedside, but people are tribal everywhere, so I’m sure I’m gonna find this everywhere I go, right?
It’s sad if I want to escape this I have to feed attention to people, to fake being something else, or have you found a better way?
As said in other posts, I’m an introverted so this would be another reason to find a job where I work alone?
There’s a saying that if you encounter an asshole during your day, congratulations, you met an asshole. If EVERYONE you encounter is an asshole, then it may be that YOU are the asshole.
You’ve been complaining about every ward you’ve worked in over the past few years. And it’s always about people not treating you fairly. I don’t know anything, so I don’t know if this applies or not, but sometimes it may seem like you’re doing all the work when you don’t fully realize what everyone else has to do, and there may be a chance that your “completely professional tone” isn’t hiding your contempt for other’s as much as you might think.
Just maybe something to think about.