I would argue not to hide finances like that, especially if it is a joint account or somebody else’s money. Be transparent with them - “I am withdrawing X amount for a present for you. I hope you look forward to it.” Presents are not about the surprise but receiving something that somebody you really care about put a lot of thought into.
I would argue not to hide finances like that, especially if it is a joint account or somebody else’s money. Be transparent with them - “I am withdrawing X amount for a present for you. I hope you look forward to it.” Presents are not about the surprise but receiving something that somebody you really care about put a lot of thought into.
This is how a proper grown up adult would handle this situation.