i only feel sexual attraction towards my partners, and they have to be sexual first. if they’re not sexual people, i only feel romance to them and no sexual feelings. i frankly don’t wanna bang anyone and have never felt like actually doing so until i met my partner, and even then, it’s more out of curiosity and romantic sparks than anything else (i’m super romantic so i’m not aromantic).

i only feel sexual feelings under certain circumstances, and even then, i use it to make myself happy and not really wanting to have sex with someone.

i am sure i feel sexual attraction, like probably towards my partner, but i’d say less so than most people do, perhaps???

i’m demisexual for now which is on the ace spectrum.

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    14 hours ago

    Meanwhile the others gave me odd looks and stares

    The mindset that I struggle to understand/relate to is that of those who seem to be unable or unwilling to accept how different another mind might be.

    Seems kinda funny to say that, akin to the tolerance “paradox” I suppose.