i only feel sexual attraction towards my partners, and they have to be sexual first. if they’re not sexual people, i only feel romance to them and no sexual feelings. i frankly don’t wanna bang anyone and have never felt like actually doing so until i met my partner, and even then, it’s more out of curiosity and romantic sparks than anything else (i’m super romantic so i’m not aromantic).

i only feel sexual feelings under certain circumstances, and even then, i use it to make myself happy and not really wanting to have sex with someone.

i am sure i feel sexual attraction, like probably towards my partner, but i’d say less so than most people do, perhaps???

i’m demisexual for now which is on the ace spectrum.

  • MissJinx@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    I’m like tthat too, never really cared about sex, I prefer to deal with it myself when needed, but my partners liked it so I did it.
    I never considered myself asexual because I do feel atraction to men, I like kissing and touching just don’t care about sex.

    I just always thought I have a low sex drive. I was married for 5 years but stop dating about 10 years ago and feel finally free.