I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it’s forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?

  • otp@sh.itjust.works
    161·
    23 hours ago

    I think a lot of hate comes from:

    • People who are jealous of people with natural looks
    • People are jealous of people who have more motivation than them to exercise and keep their bodies healthy
    • Men who exercise and work on their bodies but can’t make any money from it
    • sakuraba@lemmy.ml
      2·
      3 hours ago

      Men who exercise and work on their bodies but can’t make any money from it

      I mean they can, there are many male OF models and some don’t even work out, you only need to find your place in the market (usually with a kink)

      • eldavi@lemmy.mlEnglish
        2·
        2 hours ago

        i wish i had this realization when i was younger. lol

        back then, i was deeply confused when i learned that people were getting off to a surreptitiously recorded hookup that featured me because i assumed no fancied me; yet there was in in my full glory laughing at the wailing coming from the man i’m pleasuring and the video had over 100k likes/upvotes.

        it wouldn’t have made me a millionaire; but it would have gotten me a hell of a lot closer than i will ever be. lol

        and at least i got a husband out of the whole affair; i like silver linings. lol

        • sakuraba@lemmy.ml
          1·
          2 hours ago

          damn that sounds hot no wonder it got many likes lol

          you would be surprised, a friend of mine got popular with their low quality gay orgy videos and now lives on Canada and its part of a polycule

      • sakuraba@lemmy.ml
        2·
        2 hours ago

        for real this topic always comes along when my bf jokes about opening an OF together

        i bluntly respond with “yeah we just need to market ourselves on elon’s twitter for months with teasers and maybe paying for that blue mark while networking with other creators”