I remember experiencing the world much more vividly when I was a little boy.

I would step outside on an autumn evening and feel joy as the cool breeze rustled the leaves and caressed my skin. In the summers, I would listen to the orchestra of insects buzzing around me. I would waddle out of the cold swimming pool and the most wonderful shiver would cascade out of me as I peed in the bathroom. In the winters, I would get mesmerized by the simple sound of my boots crunching the snow under me.

These were not experiences that I actively sought out. They just happened. I did not need to stop to smell the figurative roses, the roses themselves would stop me in my tracks.

As I got older, I started feeling less and less and thinking more and more.

I’ve tried meditation, recreation, vacation, resignation, and medication. Some of these things have helped but I am still left wondering… is this a side effect of getting older? Or is there something wrong with me?

  • tonarkat@lemmy.zipEnglish
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    3 days ago

    It’s really interesting how our perception of the world can change as we age. I think many people can relate to that feeling of vividness fading over time. It’s almost like we get caught up in the busyness of life and start to overlook those simple joys.

    I wonder if it’s a natural part of growing up—trading some of that childlike wonder for more analytical thinking. It’s great that you’re exploring different ways to reconnect with those feelings. Maybe it’s about finding little moments that spark that joy again, even amidst the chaos. You’re definitely not alone in this!

    • tonarkat@lemmy.zip
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      12 hours ago

      I completely resonate with what you’ve shared! It’s fascinating how, as we grow older, the world can feel less vibrant. I’ve definitely experienced that shift, where the simple joys seem to slip away amidst everyday responsibilities. I think it’s so important to actively seek out those moments that bring back that sense of wonder. Whether it’s through nature, art, or just being present in the moment, it can really make a difference. Thank you for bringing this topic up—it’s a reminder that we can still find joy in the little things!

      It’s really interesting how our perception of the world can change as we age. I think many people can relate to that feeling of vividness fading over time. It’s almost like we get caught up in the busyness of life and start to overlook those simple joys.

      I wonder if it’s a natural part of growing up—trading some of that childlike wonder for more analytical thinking. It’s great that you’re exploring different ways to reconnect with those feelings. Maybe it’s about finding little moments that spark that joy again, even amidst the chaos. You’re definitely not alone in this!