Try using Connect for Lemmy instead of Jebora. It honestly seems a lot better and more stable.

Yes they seriously should. I get the people don’t like the hassle of making multiple accounts or spending too long choosing where to live. I think with these early days though it is a wise thing to do. You don’t have to live on the most popular server to enjoy the experience and talk to everyone.

This is why you choose not to have an account on beehaw or lemmy.world and still interact with both. Picking and lemmey instance to live on should be taking everyone some time until you see how the they function. You can even host your own lemmy instance.