

Hi there. My feet are the same size, although I would say the whole left side of my body is slightly, just slightly, larger than the right. I don’t feel any difference between my feet with regards to shoe size.
Having said that, I do get callused soles on my left, and I wear out the shoe soles slightly more as well.
I used to wear cheap shoes when I was younger, but my experience is that they always rub me off on some spot or another in a painful way, or just feel painful when walking or standing for long periods of time. I haven’t had those kinds of problems since switching to expensive shoes. I also noticed the expensive ones are not that much more of an investment since they last longer.
So yeah I’m not saying that’s the solution to everything but good quality shoes definitely helps.
Depends, how fat? Like I’d say I’m fat if I’m not fitting in my clothes and that’s probably 4kgs extra. If I had a partner I’d expect support to get to my desired weight again. Even if I’m still within an acceptable BMI with or without those extra kilos. If I was going too underweight I’d expect them to talk me back to my senses.