27/m(any pronouns are fine)/OK

Autistic and ADHD, Im a huge nerd who loves researching whatever interests me that day. My lifetime passions range from AI(actual AI, not LLMs. I was working on AI a decade before LLMs hit he market), programming, inventing, educating, futurism, tech, space, and for the last couple years bioengineering. I use lemmy as my only “social media”, and even then i mostly use it for news or memes. I hate society as is it ableist, hippocritical, uncaring to those whose value cant be extracted, and most humans are pretty cringe. As such i have no desire for “social media”, it suffers from the exact same issues reality TV suffers from.

I do have a biological desire to socialize however, so i prefer to have a small group i am intensely devoted towards, whether that be friends, family, or a lover. If youre looking for a personal connection i would like for you to reach out, but if youre a guy then be forewarned: i will not respond to misogyny, i cant comfort you,

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Joined 3 years ago
Cake day: July 7th, 2023
  • Scubus@sh.itjust.worksOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Women of lemmy, what would you think of a job where you basically train men how to act?
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    2 days ago

    I have a sneaking suspicion im not alone in wanting this. It seems my post was largely poorly worded. Im primarily advocating for something i believe will help others, because ive talked to other people(both men and women) and they seem to have some desire for something like this. I think the issue comes in because i spend my time thinking about how to solve other peoples problems but I view them through the lens of my rationale, why I would do those things or make those decisions, which leads to people assuming im advocating for this for my benefit.

    When I see men catcalling women and getting scorned, I can see that it has an effect on both parties. The women are disgusted and sometimes scared, and the men are hurt, lonely, and oblivious. The only way I can think that I would get to the point of trying those thing is if previous attempts had failed. If all my romantic ventures up until then had not worked out, so I need to try something new. That is a willingess to change, but without direction they dont know WHAT to change. This can very easily lead to them becoming worse, creating a feedback loop that leads to nothing but shitty men in our society. So by giving them that guidance on what to change, they would have a better chance of integrating themselves into society. Even better if that information isnt coming from some alpha male on youtube or some thread on the internet written by men, it needs to be a woman telling them how to change and they might actually take it to heart.

  • Scubus@sh.itjust.worksOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Women of lemmy, what would you think of a job where you basically train men how to act?
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    2 days ago

    Thats exactly what im getting at. These arent hookup classes, theyre socialization classes. I can handle being around women in a professional environment fine, it just feels like im missing something when it comes to being personal. Also, these classes arent for me, nor for autistic people. I suspect i view things differently because i am autistic, but these classes are designed for neurotypicals. But the classes are for both men and women to get experiance communicating their wants, desires, boundaries, and body language. I hear women all the time complaining they dont have a safe space to voice their concerns.

    I generally think and talk as though i am an outside observer for humanity, other than that is this really that tism coded?

  • Scubus@sh.itjust.workstoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What happens to flies when you let them fly out the window of a car at 75 mph?
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    2 days ago

    The acceleration over time(g force) is determined by the balance between the size and shape of the wing compared to the momentum of the flies body, as long as that proportion is extremely small it would fall below the material strength of the wings connective tissue. Seeing as their wings are extremely small and their momentum is extremely small, the only real variable here is the shape of their wings(technically im referring to its aerodynamic drag versus lift both with respect to the vector of motion, but were just gonna say shape{also when i say “wing” im referring to the area exposed to oncoming atmosphere, which would include the body}). As long as the shape isnt too big in comparison to the momentum, it should be fine.

    Tl;dr/eli5: if it tucks its wings it will survive. At that speed if it untucks its wings they get ripped off and the fly becomes a walk.