I’ve never heard that term. I get that some people choose not to date, but don’t most people just live- go to work, grocery, social events, etc.- and talk to the people around them? I don’t really see someone saying, “hey, if that nice girl talks to me I’m going to ignore her.”

My phone broke last week. The only way to login or to have customer service look at my account is to have a text message sent to my phone. Its so stupid!! I had to drive to the store 4 times!!!

Good answer. Doc is the best answer but may be financially difficult. Some jobs offer EAP (employee assistance program) - it only gets you 3 free visits, but it is a start. Do some reading on depression. Try to find a reason to get outside each day - even if you start with a 5 minute walk and add a bit every day or two. Is there something or someone you can help? Sometimes you’ll do for others what you won’t do for yourself - a walk for the dog, a healthy meal for a spouse, …

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Yes.

Attractive is not the same as good-looking. Nice, fun people are attractive. Assholes are ugly.

Just go to the doc. That’s your foot. Leave it to a pro.

Turns a 2 hour movies into two and a half almost. My ass starts to hurt halfway through.

Yeah how you wake up at 3:00 in the morning with a great idea but by noon you realize it was stupid. Noon never comes for him.

As a mom of men, it has always concerned me that, while we were supporting our girls, we left our boys to flounder a bit. We spent so much time telling girls that they could do anything and they could be ‘just as good as the boys’ and talking to women about glass ceilings and ‘don’t let the man keep you down.’ What did we tell our boys or rather what did they hear?

I don’t know. How do you teach empathy?

I’ve heard people say that things are spicy on the way out but i don’t really understand what that means. Spicy doesn’t bother me, but greasy, smoky, and dairy kill my stomach.

Yes. Get out on some rural roads with a friend if possible.

You never have to prove anything. You don’t have to have a label. You can just go through your day and smile at anyone you like in the moment.

We’re not old, we’re experienced. I love that I lived a ‘be home by dark’ childhood without a microchip.

I think duolingo has forums for it

When you’re fancy enough to bowl in your own.

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Met in 1986. Began dating in 1989. Married in 1994.

Upvoting here is more “thanks for sharing” and less “i agree.”