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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • Legal doesn’t make it not gross.

    That’s talking from a western and probably highly US-influenced perspective. Most westerners will probably find it OK if a 35 yo woman dates an 18 yo man, but the other way around it’s “gross”.

    If we’re fine with 18 year olds making decisions like enlisting in the army, why are we grossed out by them dating people double their age?

    I have stuff and money. But stuff and money is a power imbalance. An intimate relationship with someone so young would feel closer to a lengthy time with a naive hooker more than anything.

    That’s great for you, not all 18 year olds are naive hookers.













    1. Yes, I am saying that we would be better off by having this money put somewhere else.

    I get the notion, however social networks do have an inordinate effect populations and how they think. Spending 5M€ on say, poor communities would help those poor communities (short or long term, dunno), but they could still be influenced by a shoddy social network (or multiple). Whether that sum effect is positive or not is debatable.

    It’s very difficult to make a judgement on utility of such a (comparatively) small sum and its target.

    To be honest, I’m much more concerned about how people spend their money when they go shopping: buying non fair-trade goods like chocolate, clothes, coffee, phones, and so on, where they spend sums orders of a magnitude larger than a paltry 5-10€/month on mastodon.