I would give him time, if I were you. After a month of dating, that’s still pretty early in a relationship. Sleeping on someone else’s house can be scary, so early on.

After all, you wouldn’t want to be forced into something you’re not ready for either.

I totally get your side too, it may seem weird but it’s his boundary to set. He has said no, and no still means no.

The best thing you can do is to keep the invitation open and talk about it with him. Find out what he thinks or fears is going to happen.

Maybe he had a bedtime ritual that he’s not yet willing to share yet.

That’s still a lot more people than I expected. I would’ve guessed 1 in 300

What is the use case for it?

Thanks for the tip

I did read everything in your thread before I commented. I still say, move on. Let it go.

The letter writing suggestion isn’t a bad one, but I wouldn’t send it. Just write it and then burn it, and let that act of fire be the end of it. I know it’s not easy, but it’s the best answer you’re going to get.

… for you. The whole ordeal was never settled or resolved for you. You don’t know how the other party dealt with the aftermath.

I’d move on, if I were you.

No, just crazy. :)

I was giving you a textual hug, if you didn’t know what {{{ }}} means.

Which color has the best flavor?

Good point!

That would be nice.

Typos definitely can be a reason.

Lets see if I can still comment on your deleted post though :)

Fair assessment. Thank you, fellow NPC :)

I meant 6, not sure why I typed 4.

{{{LumpyPancakes}}}

Ah yes, why didn’t I consider that? That’s indeed very much a possibility.

[still upvoted]

I recognize that strategy. I’d be typing out an entire epistle, only to delete it all in the end, because I figure I wouldn’t add anything to the discussion, or I don’t feel good enough to comment on something :)

It’s that quick for you? I either immediately cringe, or it takes years to fester in my brain and then suddenly it’s my brain tripping me up with “remember that stupid comment you made to this person years ago? CRINGE! CRINGE FOR ME, MINION!”

That makes sense for comments, but what about posts to a community?