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Cake day: May 1st, 2022

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  • Not me but a good friend of mine met a girl and lied about his job. He was already working a decent job as a floor salesman while applying to be a flight attendant which paid more money. He told her he already had the position he was applying for, which he never got and it kept snowballing until he could no longer come clean without major consequences. For 6 months, he had to make up a fake flight schedule, fake work-related anecdotes, etc., Needless to say when he eventually came clean she ended things, and I suppose he learned a very strange but valuable lesson. It was pretty funny to me at least.






  • Not having a home or a decent passport - not a literal house, but a home. I grew up in a place that doesn’t offer citizenship regardless of how long you’ve been there, my parents wanted my siblings and I to learn English as a first language for improved job opportunities (this still causes a lot of problems due to not being able to culturally relate to most people). Studied in Europe for a very specific field and couldn’t get a job anywhere in the world due to citizenship requirements. Moved back to the place I grew up in and started a business, now my only chance of having a ‘home’ or citizenship is making enough money to buy permanent residence somewhere decent (this option is veeery expensive).

    Although I’m very grateful for my current financial position, and I know I’ll eventually get to where I want to be, I still can’t help being resentful towards everyone I studied with, whom immediately got jobs in the field I chose simply by virtue of having the ‘right color’ passport.