Someone else mentioned Seychelles, so I’ll also throw in the rather awesome, Jamaica:

Seconding Seychelles, such a cool flag.

Seems very unlikely to me that there’s any real relationship between financial wellbeing and the capacity for empathy. There are wonderful people and shitty people and everything in between, at all levels of society IMO. Better to judge individuals on their actions, than classes on their general characteristics.

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It’s bigger than pocket sized, but if you search for Mini PC, there’s a fair few. They’re about 10-12cm square and about 5 or 6 cm tall, so easily fit in a bag.

Although you’ll still need a screen, mouse, keyboard, etc of course.

I’m choosing to see the green as a puddle instead 😁

No worries - take it easy mate 👍

You’ve had some good advice on here I think, so I’ll not add much other than to say I’m really sorry you’re hurting, and I hope some time and distance away from her (not in a hostile way, just for your own wellbeing) helps you feel better.

Also, the therapy thing - when possible, yeah, talking shit out can really help. If money is an issue, there may still be some free local group counselling sessions you can find. I’ve done that, and I found that in addition to expressing my feeling, the process of listening to and comforting others actually made me feel better too.

away from the eyes away from the heart (dont know if its used in english)

Re that phrase, in English a common way of expressing much the same idea would be “Out of sight, out of mind”

Good luck dude, it gets easier [hug] 👍

Archer.

Mallory Archer.

Adam Yauch from the Beastie Boys was one, and David Lynch very recently was another. Both hit really hard :-(

The one I always remember is from when I was a kid, probably about 8-10 years old.

It’s basically just this. I was on a bridge over a river (not a huge bridge or a huge river) and I somehow knew that my younger brother had fallen into the water, and I jump down and the water is only about thigh deep and I’m searching and searching in this muddy water, pulling it apart frantically with my hands, and I just can’t find him, and it goes on and on. I can still see it vividly. Deeply unsettling.

Possibly yeah. Although these are villages you’d drive through in about 5 seconds, so no matter where the pin is put it’s not going to be 2 miles different. Maybe it’s starting in a different place though, that might do it. Cheers, will check that out.

To annoy the sort of people who don’t help at all with a question, but immediately query some other non-pertinent aspect of it.

Good idea, but I’ve tried overlaying closer zoomed in screengrabs and the routes appear to be absolutely identical! So weird.