I’m the dad of a 14-year-old boy. Growing up, my parents were very closed off and distant, so I never felt comfortable asking them personal questions, which honestly hurt me quite a bit. I promised myself that if I ever became a parent, I’d make sure my kid felt comfortable talking to me about anything. So recently, my son came to me and said he wanted to shave down there but was scared he might cut himself. He asked how to do it. I asked him if he wanted me to show him, and he said yes. So I showed him the process. He said, “Thanks, Dad,” and that was that. On one hand, I’m proud that I created the open environment I always wanted growing up. On the other hand, I can’t help but wonder if people around me would think it crossed a boundary.

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    15 hours ago

    Fatherhood has no expiry date. If your son came to you asking for help, don’t overthink. Do the right thing and help him out, regardless of what he wants to shave.

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      12 hours ago

      If your son came to you asking for help, don’t overthink. Do the right thing and help him out, regardless of what he wants to shave.

      This should be stitched into a throw pillow. The first sentence on one side, the second sentence on the other side.

      It could work for so many occasions.