Like, if you accidentally cut someone off, and they get mad and honk, how do you apologize?

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    (Edit: real answer) For most acknowledgements, I double-tap a light — beams, brakes, or hazards depending on current lighting conditions and relative position of other driver — because most things I would say to them are two beats long:

    • “Thank you”
    • ”Sorry”
    • “My bad”
    • ”Go on”
    • ”Nice drift”
    • ”You drunk?”
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          One insight was the different behavior when a light turned green with someone at the front making a left turn.

          Where I grew up that person would just have to wait, but in the city where I went to college they’d let one car turn left before opposing traffic started.

          It was a bit of a culture shock being honked at for obeying the actual law.

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      because most things I would say to them are two beats long

      LOL. Doesn’t that mean it’s completely ambiguous? There’s plenty of awful things you could say in 2 beats.

      I imagine that people flash twice because once could be a mistake, twice demonstrates intent. Three would make me wonder whether it’s an ongoing flashing light.

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        I’d certainly interpret it that way if it fit.

        The only issue I’d see with that convention is that in many scenarios in which you’d use it — other driver makes room for you to merge, brakes early to let you turn left, and so forth — you (should) already have half of the hazard lights actively repeating, which could muddle the message. But otherwise I like it.

        Another random convention I learned early on was rapid triple-tap beams (i.e., like a strobe) = “speed trap ahead”