I mean DO have cousins whose aunt KEEPS BRAGGING ABOUT THEIR VACATIONS…

And when my family was in NYC (like when I was 8 - 12) they were busy so they left their kid (who’s named RAYMOND) with us, and he fucking started bullying me… fucking ABCs (American-Born Chinese) so arrogrant cuz they got birthright citizenship and spoke better

And recently, they just bragged about this Raymond apparantly “making millions of dollars from a bussiness trip abroad”.

I’m just like… cool good for you, lucky you got privilage.

They grew up with Wii and Nintendos

My other cousins, all those who were all born in the US, every one of then had a bunch of toys and video game consoles growing up… I never had an actual video game console growing up. My family is broke as hell.

So its just jealousy, envy… but still, I’m not gonna beg them for money, its a face thing.

Which is why my mom is so disappointed in me, we’re probably the “poorest” in my extended family…

One of the Aunts actually got my family to the US so I am thankful for that… (the mom of that Raymond kid, that kid who bullied me when my parents wete babysitting him, I say “babysitting” but he was a year older than me actually)

I mean I have no relationship with any of my cousins, they didn’t even wanna talk to be because I was “Fresh Off the Boat”… so we just kinda never really talked…

I don’t care about them… I’m more worried about whether or not I get my half of my parents stuff, those cousins are irrelevent to me, I mean good for them, they had more privilege than I ever did.

But then again, they probably had more pressure and expectations… so IDK if they actually have happier lives… I heard they were forced to do tutoring and stuff. Their dad is a college professor and I think their family own a lot of realestate and they have stocks and get news cars so often, like a new flagship phone every year… vacations every year…

And my paternal grandparents keeps asking money from their children… its always so awkward… my mom told dad to “make sure to give it when everyone else is in the room” so there are witnesses and they wont say their son (aka: my dad) was being “unfilial”…

Edit: Okay my comment was full of typos lol