JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-217 hours agoIf you're sexually frustrated & can rarely find a mate & decide to live a life of "nofap," what are the effects that buildup of sexual frustration has?message-squaremessage-square76fedilinkarrow-up130arrow-down113file-text
arrow-up117arrow-down1message-squareIf you're sexually frustrated & can rarely find a mate & decide to live a life of "nofap," what are the effects that buildup of sexual frustration has?JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-217 hours agomessage-square76fedilinkfile-text
minus-squarehesh@quokk.aulinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up12·17 hours agoLife is about balance. You dont want to be a reclusive masturbation addict, and you don’t want to be an anxious frustrated nofapper.
minus-squareJennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down4·17 hours agoYeah but every time I cum alone, it reinforces the alone-ness. I’m sick of self-perpetuating loneliness. Going out into the world with hunger & ambition & angst feels empowering right now.
minus-squarehesh@quokk.aulinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·16 hours agoThen IMO follow what makes you feel right. In general just avoid taking things to extremes.
minus-squareP00ptart@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·15 hours agoThat same idea can get you into bad relationships. It’s better to find a partner with a level head.
Life is about balance. You dont want to be a reclusive masturbation addict, and you don’t want to be an anxious frustrated nofapper.
Yeah but every time I cum alone, it reinforces the alone-ness. I’m sick of self-perpetuating loneliness. Going out into the world with hunger & ambition & angst feels empowering right now.
Then IMO follow what makes you feel right. In general just avoid taking things to extremes.
That same idea can get you into bad relationships. It’s better to find a partner with a level head.