• Senal@programming.dev
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    11 hours ago

    I think to a degree you can see our different styles in just our replies itself, I do care about conversation. I like it and think it’s best when it shares information or opinion about people who care to do so. I also dont think to think I can control it but add my opinion so it is seen and move on when it is obviously not productive.

    I can see the difference in style but i think it’s also a difference in perspective. For me, most interactions have useful information in them, even the ones like we’ve been talking about. There is a range of information that you can only get (or is more prevalent in) interactions that aren’t a standard sharing of ideas or opinions, for me at least.

    As i said, i do understand this is not the same for everyone.

    And I dunno I care about others. I think frustrated yipping at each other isn’t fun empatheticly but I could be wrong about it. If you find interest in this conversation I am not meaning to stop you just wanted to know you were not stuck in that recursive loop (that was the word, thank you) against your own better judgement.

    I will admit that my empathy seems to be non-standard, it’s not like i don’t have any but the situations in which it applies seem to differ from what i hear from others.

    When i said fun in that initial reply, what i really mean was interest, in a sense that new information/perspectives are enjoyable because of the influx of new information.

    Having to work through and around the yipping from one side is sometimes a requirement to get to the interesting bits, it’s not fun, but it is what it is.

    i appreciate the heads up though, i’m not immune to getting sucked past the point of interest sometimes.