I ask as a butch lesbian (enby) myself. In Swedish, we have: truckflata or butchflata.
I suck at all 3 languages, but for femme I’ve just seen femmeflata.
I think it’s just Butch and Femme in German, but I’m still kinda learning that.
Lesbians in German is lesben and in Swedish, it’s “lesbiska” or “flator”.
oops. just realized it;'s apparently an insult
Some people use it proudly about themselves, but if somebody who doesn’t love and respect you use it about you, it can be an insult.
ohhhh ok, i get it now