I ask as a butch lesbian (enby) myself. In Swedish, we have: truckflata or butchflata.
I suck at all 3 languages, but for femme I’ve just seen femmeflata.
I think it’s just Butch and Femme in German, but I’m still kinda learning that.
Lesbians in German is lesben and in Swedish, it’s “lesbiska” or “flator”.
Only Danish expression I know is decades old and probably not adopted by the lesbian community (hardly flattering), but that is “beton lebbe”, where beton means concrete, liking the women to very butch female construction workers, if I’m not mistaken.