• Coreidan@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    “Hey babe. I made a mistake. I want to get back together.”

    “Sure no problem! Me too! I just need to plow through this list of dudes I’m gonna fuck first.”

    Seems like an awfully shitty thing to do to someone that’s genuinely interested in you.

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      8 months ago

      You cheat on someone: you’re a worthless piece of shit.

      You don’t get back together with someone because you want to have sex with other people first: you’re sad and creepy.

      One can never win when it comes to sex in a puritanical society, unless they very faithfully only have sex with one person.

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      8 months ago

      Sounds kinda hot to me. To spice things up, I’d want to hear all about it when we get back together.

      E: Kink shamers, the lot of you! I’d rather be with an experienced lady over someone who’s only been with me.

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        8 months ago

        Exactly, how else will they know they are with the best? In all aspects of a relationship

    • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.de
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      8 months ago

      Right and clearly women sleeping with more men devalues them? Or what is your problem?

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        8 months ago

        My point is if I’m interested in someone (man or women) I’m going to have zero interest in waiting for them to fuck a bunch of people first.

        Why would I? I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

        You just be young or have never been in a loving relationship before.

        If I told my girlfriend right before I started dating her that before we start I need to go bang 15 women, should have told me to get lost. And rightfully so.

        I can’t help but find this to be a sad reality.

        • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.de
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          Lol I am not young and have been in several decade-long relationships but sure go ahead assuming.

          I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

          Thats the real sad mindset I think. You are clearly tying value to number of sexual partners.

          • Coreidan@lemmy.world
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            8 months ago

            lol no. Has nothing to do with valuing number of partners. It’s that I don’t want the woman I love fucking other people.

            Is it really that hard to understand? Good lord.

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            8 months ago

            Or vakuento were your are in their priorities which one would and should expect to rank higher than one night stands. You are losing this ine white knight.

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              8 months ago

              White knight? Lmao they’re right and white knight doesn’t even apply here.

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                8 months ago

                How is he right, expecting to rank higher on your partner’S list of priorities than strange is not asking much.