So she’s kind of been reluctant in people knowing where she lives. And from my understanding you can just leave if you want but when it comes to her house. And since yeah it’s her house I do wonder where the boundary lays. So I am an adult yes and my mom is out right now with my sister taking care of me and staying around the house which has me worried but she said she would be back either Sunday or Monday and I’m planning on taking my chances Sunday. But seriously what is the rules as it comes down to there are cameras my sister has access to so I think she might see me leaving anyway and question me on this. So what exactly are my rights as an adult? Can someone pick me up in the driveway and we just leave together and then come back home? I do think even if I leave and come back home that can show some form of trust and then I can eventually tell my mom what I did when she gets back home. I even hope I can use my recent birthday as an excuse to start dating. But the main point I want to bring up is if I can tell someone where I live and have them pick me up outside the house?

  • TheBigBrother@lemmy.world
    815·
    3 months ago

    If it’s your house and you pay the bills you can make the rules, if isn’t your house and you pay no bills you will have to follow the rules, it doesn’t matter how much old you are actually.

        • Wrufieotnak@feddit.org
          7·
          3 months ago

          The user name of the parent comment is “TheBigBrother”. Big Brother is also the name of the totalitarian regime in the dystopian book Nineteen Eighty-Four from George Orwell. The other commentator referenced the Big Brother in 1984 to the comment of the parent comment thereby implying, that the original comment with the “my house, my rules” is too totalitarian or strict.

      • Blizzard@lemmy.zipEnglish
        21·
        3 months ago

        I think there is some context here you didn’t mention. If you’re 25, why is your sister taking care of you?

      • TheBigBrother@lemmy.world
        21·
        3 months ago

        If isn’t your house, at least you pay the bills or a part of it? If you are there living WO paying anything you will not get any benefits IMO.

        Edit: there is a big difference between living with your parents and living from your parents.