• SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      9
      ·
      2 days ago

      Not really.

      What I mean is what if I started calling all Lemmy users lemmos and meant no offense, the word caught on too.

      But then Lemmy users hated it. So people stop using it.

      Is that a slur or not.

      Theres a lot of offensive words today that have a history like that. Where they were often descriptive words and not attacking words by intent of the user.

      • cheers_queers@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        2 days ago

        I think power structures come into play too. Example: a plantation owner calling his slaves the n-word. Language used to dehumanize a group is always a slur.

        • Zagam@piefed.social
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          2 days ago

          Guess why its called a Master Bedroom? I do renovations and build houses. I’m trying to use primary bedroom or primary suite more.

          • yoevli@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            6
            ·
            2 days ago

            From what I can find online, it seems like it’s unlikely that particular term was originally meant to refer to slave masters and it moreso referred to the head of household.

            • Zagam@piefed.social
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              2 days ago

              OK, thsts fair. Its something I heard, not researched myself. Still, fuck the patriarchy.

              • arararagi@ani.social
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                14 hours ago

                Just accept you were wrong, in Brazil there was a company that didn’t want to use “black Friday” because they didn’t find a source saying it wasn’t racist.

                • Zagam@piefed.social
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  ·
                  12 hours ago

                  I did? I said it was a fair and that I hadn’t read it myself. I’m not sure what more you expect.

        • Steve@communick.news
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          2 days ago

          What if the dehumanizing language is used to elevate a group above you humans?