This is part of it, I think she wants to keep it a bit of a surprise. So I think it’s also about balancing out what she wants from the experience as well
Everyone is different. What’s helpful is - we’re going to the pub, nice pub, restaurant, nice restaurant etc. What’s not helpful is - just look nice, you always look nice anyway, wear whatever.
I want to be told where I’m going. I don’t like surprises. I especially don’t like “I have a surprise for you but you have to wait”.
This is part of it, I think she wants to keep it a bit of a surprise. So I think it’s also about balancing out what she wants from the experience as well
Everyone is different. What’s helpful is - we’re going to the pub, nice pub, restaurant, nice restaurant etc. What’s not helpful is - just look nice, you always look nice anyway, wear whatever.
Those sorts of indicators make sense. Essentially saying what the place is without giving away the name