What is the best way to react, if someone calls you a degenerate? Just leave them, remembering the insult?

This type of insult targets disabled people specifically?

  • BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org
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    48 minutes ago

    Calling someone a degenerate is their way of saying you have low/no morals etc.  Is a lame insult used by people who think they have some high ground over you.

    Like I’d imagine some fundamentalist Christian using it about skaters back in the 90s.

    I’m not sure why it would be used to comment on disability.

  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    1 hour ago

    If it’s not being used ironically or self deprecatingly I generally assume the person in question is a fash or some sort of right winger

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      4 hours ago

      Yeah, I’ve never heard of it being used to target people with disabilities (although looking it up, I see it can be used that way, TIL) - I’ve only ever thought of it as a judgement on character/behaviour. Like I’d have no issue with anyone describing Trump as a degenerate, because he’s a sick, twisted, vindictive, corrupt prick.

  • 5in1K@lemmy.zip
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    3 hours ago

    When I call someone a degenerate gambler I am not going after the disabled.

  • gray@lemmy.ml
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    2 hours ago

    No decent person would use the word degenerate. Just don’t interact if you can

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      56 minutes ago

      I may not be a decent person, but I do have a discord channel called The Department of Degeneracy where we post dark, spicy, and doomer memes that would make grandma gasp and clutch her pearls.

  • GreyShuck@feddit.uk
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    4 hours ago

    I associate this with fascists and right-wingers going back a few generations as being broadly equivalent to ‘woke’ these days: i.e. anything vaguely progressive that they didn’t like.

    So, without additional context, my reaction would be to assume that the person saying this was a fascist - and therefore to treat any further interactions accordingly - and to wear the term with honour.

  • barkybeak@lemmy.zip
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    4 hours ago

    I commonly get called names and have disparaging comments fly my way.

    At first, I let them get under my skin. I would get depressed. But I realized this is exactly what they want me to feel. They won.

    Now when someone “makes a joke” I just tell myself they won’t win and realize whatever credibility or trust I had for this person is lost. They are wholly uneducated and I make the choice not to engage with them any further.

    I win this round. Not them