Well that’s the end of my little break :(
Good swim, no meltdowns, no “what’s for dinner”, good sleeps, good comet, no locking of horns…
Only spoke to a dog at the dog beach and the magpie. Bliss.
:-)
@PeelerSheila@aussie.zone when is your birthday because I’d like to wish you a very happy birthday and hope all your wishes come true. You are an inspiration 🎂 ❤️
We ❤️ you, Peeler!
Happy birthday from me, too! 🎂🥳
Happy birthday Peeler! 🎂
It’s the 16th 🙂 And thankyou for your kind words
I have been mildly stoned daily this week and have been very productive (home related things). Still managing to chill and nap regularly.
Great week off.
Actually living the dream.
If this is what retirement is, I’m ready.
My front security camera had a short story to tell me today. A small dog came to visit, trotting up the driveway and trying the front door and side gate. A bit of wandering around, looking like it expected someone to let it in. Then a person showed up, there were happy greetings and the dog was picked up and carried away. Poor dog, all the houses around here look the same!
the irises have started blooming, the colour is intense
Beautiful. I was just wondering yesterday if they were blooming yet!
:) not frilly but the colour is so deep
I was reading they are one of the few flowers that come in all three colours, reds, yellows and blue/purple
ooh they’re out!
What a gorgeous colour! 💜
Beautiful! Mine started blooming out the back and exMIL decided to chop them and put them in a vase in her living room ☹️
Edit: she knows not to, I’ve told her off before.
I used FB for my buildings FB group, and insta for memes, but it gives me the heebies when it recommends “friends” from highschool. Like, no thank you, they were all bullies. It gives me schadenfreude though when I check their profiles and the girl bullies are all stuck in an pyramid scheme though 😂
Didn’t really feel like a swim after work but dragged my ass there and of course felt 1000x better after some laps. Being in water is healing, even when it’s chemicaled up the wazoo.
I will definitely be going to the beach tomorrow
maybe one of these I will even go in the water
Friend who is a big procrastinator and only started her assignment today keeps messaging me to tell me how frustrated she is because her code didn’t work or something and she wants to kill herself. Fucking yikes.
I procrastinate like that too but I keep those thoughts as inside ones.
FWIW, they really sound like a programmer.
🤠
Talk like that concerns me. I don’t find it funny, tell her to not ever say anything like that in jest
and if she is being manipulative I would cut her as a friend.
What does she want from you?
If she doesn’t overtly ask for something what do you think she trying to manipulate you into doing?
She wants someone to comfort her in her distress. I told her that a psych appointment takes five minutes to book, she can see one through Zoom, it’s FREE through her uni, and she won’t get one straight away, so the don’t have time is an excuse.
encouragement is what she needs, not comfort
“You can do it!”
Done :))
Yikes. Sounds like girl needs to join a coding forum or something for the technical help, address her pacing struggles with the teacher, and not say such things to you even as a joke.
Edit: She needs help if she’s actually serious and it’s not hyperbole or even if she’s genuinely just overwhelmed. Friends can help of course and I’m sympathetic but I feel like without boundaries and proper supports in place this lady could bring you down with her
Yep. She said she doesn’t have time to see a psych, even though her uni offers them for free and it only takes an hour. She’s used AI to code most things these days, saying that it’s the processes that she needs to know, not the actual code itself…
She said she doesn’t have time to see a psych,
she’s a drama queen
If you don’t have a lot of choices due to the service being subsidised some providers can be terrible. There’s also a shortage plus high demand.
But a lot of them do Zoom now. I think she just doesn’t want to. It’s easier to demand informal supports from a friend to just vent
Edit: Obligatory warning against using Better Help though
She is a student and has access to counselling and psychology through her uni. I sent her all the links. I think it’s all a mental thing for her, like it is for me.
Yeah, I completely understand the mental barrier thing. But it is something she has to do herself. You’re doing what you can
Absolutely
Yeah… You seem like a good friend but please take care of yourself here and watch out. Don’t be the only friend she goes to and maybe distance yourself a bit.
Sorry if this is unwanted advice. It’s just in my twenties I had friends who were chaotic and insisted on using me as the go to while refusing to let me link them with more appropriate supports (or help them in practical actions to fix a problem), and I burned out so hard I had to drop them. Then I was the one not coping.
Assuming she’s able bodied and not incapacitated by her mental health your friend has choices here.
Even if they’re not something she wants to do, such as deferring for a while, withdrawing/failing and retaking the course, changing courses, or withdrawing/failing and going into work instead. I’m not sure how everything works now but she has options.
If she’s both physically disabled and her mental health is unmanaged/unmanageable she might actually be fucked but also you have the right to maintain boundaries and your own wellbeing.
Thanks Melba. I have linked her to appropriate supports and been encouraging. A voice of reason and self-compassion if you will. Now I will be disengaging to work on my own assignment due soon.
Go karting was funnn. We had enough for two groups, after the first set of races we got split into the fast group and the slow group. I was the slowest qualifier for the fast group 😎 and then I came sixth of eight in the finals which was the fasties
Did they breath test you before hand?
I came last in the race we did, my friend said “thank you for sticking to the left. It made going around you easy”.
Yes they did breath test us! These karts were no joke. 55kmh 🫣.
Now I can beer though. Cheers 🍺🍻🍺Le Mans by any chance?
They were absolutely no joke either haha way too fast for my liking.
No idea. Not a car guy at all
My elbows hurt for a week afterwards. I have shitty elbows though.
Lots of complaints about sore wrists but I was okay, let’s see how I pull up tomorrow
What are we doing today Skip?
Taking over the world! Oh wait…
Spending the day on the couch with a wheat bag and chocolate.
I’ve got my wheatbag in the microwave as well speak.
I’m going to karting after work with work social club
I love how your work has a social club
It’s pretty cool, so far I’ve gone to a wine tasting, comedy festival night, ummm some other things. Have missed a fair few things. I pay $5 per fortnight and every activity is heavily subsidised
That’s so good! Every company should have something like it.
Lego & vacuuming
We have a wedding to attend 😃
Practising for open mic night soon.
Sleeping because the roadworks etc
Maybe some video games but probs just more music stuff.
Maybe a night out if band rehearsal isn’t tonight.
Work
Finishing an assignment hopefully on time
Maybe watching an episode of something if I finish the assignment before the deadline.
I’ve been silently informed that just because I’ve come back from band rehearsal, doesn’t mean I get to disrupt her quiet time by singing.
Goodnight all ❤️
Good night.
Cheers everyone and 'ave a good weekend 🍺
Update on my experiment. I definitely feel better than before. My head, nose, ears, throat feel a bit clearer. Possibly just masking symptoms but atleast I can breathe a bit better. I need more Guinea pigs if anyone is game.
Ibuprofen is antiinflamatory, hayfrever is partially inflammation.
True. I didn’t expect it to work as well as it has. I walked out to the letterbox and came back. No sneezing. I was very surprised. It’s like a booster.
Cheeeeeeers!
Cheers 🍺
New Tame Impala album dropped. Still listening, but he’s gone down a different direction from all his other stuff.
I did not like the pre-release singles I heard, but I am going to dive in anyway and hope for the best. Currents is one of my favourite albums ever, what happened?!
Agreed. Dracula sounds like it should have been a Dula Peepa track. Also that line about watching Family Guy?
I’m listening to the album right now, and so far I’m not really meshing with it. I miss his signature guitars and drums too. I feel like his older music was more ‘eventful’ if you catch my drift. E.g. the different parts of Let It Happen.
I predict Afterthought will be the commercial success from the album. Very much a dance track.
I don’t dislike the album as much as the new Taylor Swift one though!
Do let me know what you think of the rest of the album when you listen to it :)
I have listened through a few times - also don’t mind Afterthought, the first song isn’t bad, and End of Summer has grown on me. But that’s all the positive I have to say. It’s just blah, what I love about Tame is the psych elements in the music and the catchy bass lines and melodies, and that’s all but gone here and replaced with nothing interesting. Super disappointed.
Yep :( End of Summer has grown on me too, but I can’t help hearing “I can feel it in my balls” in the chorus.
I spent an hour fighting with youtube revanced only to install new pipe via f-droid without issue and immediately start watching YT on mobile without ads.
I still haven’t got around the pin of this unused spare android to do that. I have an idea how but unsure if it’ll work and kinda gave up in the middle
I’ve had a lovely afternoon in the sun, planting some of my tubestock and listening to the kids next door having a great time playing outside with their parents. There is something very uplifting about hearing children play.
I’m a bit behind on where I would like to be with the planting - digging out the grass is tough work - but I am progressing steadily. I do have all the herbs planted now and the larger natives, it’s mostly the smaller ones and ground covers to go. It is nice being able to go outside and see actual plants.
Nice! I especially love that you have dwarf lemons. (I had to go back to remind myself what plants you had.) They’ll be good for fish, lemon drinks, and maybe some jars of lemon butter.
My favourite variety is Meyer lemons
